hey happy independence day to all.. wishin luck to all who ve been cravin for their creative n moral independence, may ur wishes come true...JAI HIND

Technology has turned us from a human to a machine. The love for technology, gadgets and information is increasing day by day. Sometimes these gadgets just go over my head, ya I mean it really is difficult to keep oneself updated now a days. It’s a hard job I feel. For me it sure is. I got this iPod as a gift from ma hubby and I was quite excited about using it. But it has been long it was kept lying in my cupboard. Every day I used to think that today I ll get it out and start using but no use as I always forgot.

But today from nowhere at 4 ‘o clock in the morning I finally got a hold of it. And you know its bloody taking so long. The whole downloading thing and synchronizing thing has taken my breath away. It seems as if it’s not my cup of tea anymore but I am a tough bull. I am trying to keep up my breath right in control and have a sip of patience. As there is a saying: patience pays… yippy finally the whole download thing is over now and I can enjoy listening my favorite songs. Here I go….

god bless....

mom.. u r best thing ever happened to me

The best thing in this world is a baby’s smile. It’s so innocent, so pure and serene that it can’t be compared with any other happiness in the world. I can say this because I went through this experience. Infact the whole journey of becoming a mother is an awesome experience.

It’s said that a woman is not complete till the time she becomes a mother and enjoy this blissful motherhood. I personally never took it seriously till the time I myself become one. There is this whole chain or you can say a tree that keeps on growing its branches all over. I am a mother now and I had my mother and she had hers and so on….  I still remember that whenever I wanted her, she used to be with me for whatever and where ever. I was a lazy ass and she had a really hard time bringing me up but she never complained.  I come from a joint family set up where there is a lot of responsibility on elder person’s shoulder and my mother happens to be the elder daughter in law of my grandma. To add to the trouble my grandma has been a real bull to tackle, totally Nirupa Roy kind of saas type of character. My chachu was 12 when my mom and dad got married. So he was like another child to be handled. I and my brother used to be very naughty. I still remember that mom used to make us sleep for sometime in afternoon after the lunch time. The moment we see that she slept we used to pick our sandals and go out from our room to play outside.

I was totally dependent on her till the end of my school time. She used to get all my stuff ready and send me hot and yummy food in my Tiffin just right on recess time. I had this one big benefit of having my school near my house that I used to get hot and fresh food.  And when I used to come back from school she had been ready with yummy lunch. When I was in college I had some practical subjects for which I had to stay in college for late hours sometimes. But when it used to be late she used to come searching for me to know whether I was fine or not. She used to leave everything for me and come running to me whenever I needed her. She has been more of a friend and companion to me than just a mother. Ofcourse, my guide in every aspect and avenue of my life. I can keep on writing about her and never get tired. She never had her meals before me, I remember whenever I would not eat and even fight then also she would not take her meal. Then we used to sit and talk and solve the matter. All my actions had reactions on her.

Her care was always the same from my childhood to college days and till date too. Even if I go today she has so much to offer. Not just food but there is her wait, love and talks everything. Even now if I am not feeling good about something I talk to her but now I take care of this thing that I should not put her in  tensions anymore. But she is my mom and knows me the best than anyone else can. I name it and she understands the problem and give me a solution for that as well.  She has given us all her life and ignored her own personal needs. I owe so much to her and can’t repay that despite of whatever I do.

Now when I became a mother I realized the pain and struggle a women has to go through while giving birth to a child. This is just a beginning and there is a lot more coming up to us. Mom once said that when you give birth to a child it’s a second birth for a woman too. But she forgets all her pains and sorrows when she sees her child in her arms. It’s an awesome feeling and can’t be expressed in words. You get your little junior in your hands. You are happy inside but also bit conscious to hold him because you want to handle him with utmost care. A little baby is like an angel. I can recollect all my moments. I had a premature delivery and my son was in nursery for a few days and I was sent home by the doctor the very fourth day. Adi my son came home on the 5^th day of his birth; it was Sunday I remember 7^th of December. Mom and dad got him from nursery. I was so delighted to see him in my mom hands as if it’s the best I can ever see. I can still feel all that and start crying out of joy that to see my little angel in mom’s hands. She was the one who took him for a bath as well as I never dared. It’s a very responsible job on its own. I always feel him the most secure in her company. After all she is the one who handled me I can trust her best even before me for Adi. I am in a different city now and really miss her. She has given me the best memories of my life and still tries to put all things fine every time I create a mess.

 Mom is such a gift to us from god that is invaluable in every sense. I regret for not obeying her and hurting her many times due to my childish and selfish attitude. All I want from god is to make her happy and be by my side all my life. Adi has made me realize how hard efforts a mother has to do to bring up a child. He is my darling ofcourse and never stays away from me more than 15 minutes. Typical mamma’s boy. Mom I promise I’ll try to do my best to bring him up and give your kind of good and humble preaching. May god bless him good health, calm mind and a humble heart for humanity. 

God bless...

ma own space...

A little space is all what I am asking for….

There are some questions in the world that you never find an answer for and there are some questions that you should never ask. But we are humans and humans are made to be like that. That’s the mistake we make, our conscious keeps tingling us and we ask such questions which should never be asked. I really don’t what I am up to right now. Never felt so alone, so low ever. I am just thinking what I am here for? There is loneliness deep in my heart which cannot be expressed to anyone and I think no one would even be able to understand that.

There are times when you just don’t wanna think about anybody and anything. You want to be all by yourself, sulk in deep down under and want to get that peace for your soul. At the same time you feel like getting up n conquering all this fear of your inner darkness but hence choose to stay in dark.

May be I am not that brave to do it all so soon. I might take some time off for myself first and try to understand me my own self. I can’t pretend to be happy and gay when I am not like that at heart. Suddenly all these relations and its responsibilities seem fake, as if it has been forced upon by this world and society. Why can’t we be ourselves on our own? I might be sounding negative or depressed but this is ma state of mind at the moment. I don’t want any sympathy but just my own tiny space in this big world. Right now all that’s coming to ma mind is this one song from 3 idiots: give me some sunshine give some rain give me another chance I wanna grow up once again…..

Oh lord give me peace…

Happy Friendship Day

Happy friendship day…

Do u know?

In 1935, USA govt. killed a man on 1st of August and next day his best friend committed suicide in his memory. So USA govt. decided and declared 1^st Sunday of every August as Friendship day. On this 73^rd Friendship day I wish you too. Happy Friendship Day. This was one of the first messages that clicked on my cell phone in the morning. Nowadays we have a day dedicated to every person and relation such as Mother’s day, Father’s day, Women day, etc.. And I think there’s a husband day also and there’ll be couple day soon too. I was wondering if all these days have their origin from USA only and are they the contributing to celebrate relations and relationships in the world.

Leave all that apart, today is Friendship Day. This day is about cherishing such a relation which is made by our own choice.  We have certain relations like mother, father, sister, brother, uncles and list goes on and on. But this is one such relation which could not be forced upon anyone and is made after analyzing and knowing a person. We meet many people but all of them do not become friends. We like someone and like their company and understand each other. This chemistry goes on improving and becomes a base of a strong relationship called friendship and which can go for a lifetime as well. A friend is the one with who you can be yourself and can almost talk about anything. We share the happiest moments to the most difficult and embarrassing moments with them. It’s not necessary that we have be in constant contact or meet them regularly, and sometimes just a thought that they are there for us is sufficient enough to be in sense. U know, I have a few friends whom I don’t get to meet regularly, in fact it takes ages when we meet but the moment we are in front of each other we are the same old buddies, happy to see each other and the understanding between us could be seen in each other’s eyes. No complaints no questions as where we were and what we were doing nothing…. Just glad to see other, wanting to sip the cup of cappuccino that we used to do earlier or have the favorite pizza. We decide it on the go and have a good time without thinking when will we possibly meet again or see each other but there is a sense of satisfaction to see each other happy and settled.

I believe the best of friends that we get is during our school time or college time as we have so much time to be with each other and that is the age when you don’t have any self motive behind your friendship. It’s just pure friendship and it goes very long. Later in our lives we get busy with things and there is more of friendship of convenience like business friends and all that. Anyways this is the best relation that I find which is accessible to us. Easy going, no hassles, no faking, true love and care, understanding, and I can go on and on and on…. And this will never end as friendship never ends. So a very happy friendship day to all and hope you cherish this relation for your lifetime.

  God bless.